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Why Should You Be Engaged Only Once? |
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At one time it was thought that to be engaged more than once meant certain
damnation. The groom-to-be often avoided making the proposal himself but instead
sent friends to represent his interests to his intended bride or her family. On
their way to make this visit, these representatives would observe certain things
that they would interpret as omens for the future couple. A monk, a blind man,
or pregnant women were among the bad omens, signalling that the representatives
should give up their mission. Nanny goats, a pigeon, or a wolf were among those
bringing good fortune. One warning for brides-to-be was to avoid suitors whose
surnames began with the same letter as their own.
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Wedding Tradition